I led a gathering on the topic of “patience” this past week. Many different theories/experiences/questions were discussed in the session. Was patience remaining calm in the midst of an anxious situation? Was it best to distract oneself in order to wait? Does it require a positive attitude? Can you be patient with others but not […]
I am writing a new social emotional learning curriculum for elementary students called “Songs of My Life for Children”. As part of it I am telling stories about emotional/social events in my life when I was young. I am finding it a very interesting exercise, one I would recommend. Here are two little stories/reflections for […]
“Celebrating imperfections” seems like an oxymoron. Because it’s a negative, the word imperfection technically is the opposite of perfect. And why would we celebrate something not perfect? But, we know that nothing is perfect. But remember, imperfect is not unfinished. It is not mediocre. It is not boring. It just is. Diamonds have flaws, rabbits […]
I belong to a dream group. A group that meets periodically to tell and discuss each other’s dreams (nighttime dreams). We have met for over 20 years. It is an awesome way to get to know someone, through their dreams. This particular meeting, last week, seemed to focus on spiritual things. Dreams of communication with […]
This week is my birthday. Sometimes I struggle with it. I’m a guy that likes to celebrate. But sometimes I think the expectation/preparation is too much and ruins what could have been a good time. I have scheduled a gig at a bar on my birthday and invited everyone, I’ve given surprise parties for my […]
A few thoughts: A good friend of mine told me this past week that he has a very serious cancer. I am very sad about this. We have shared so many good times over the years. Today I talked to six people in Ukraine who are starting a new project to help people with their […]
My son graduated from high school. I’m going to have an empty nest. It’s summertime. I bought a boat. My Rotary presidency is ending. All are examples of times when we begin again. I was talking to people this week and asked the question what prevents us from starting over or beginning a new venture. […]
I want to buy a boat. Do you ever feel that way? Usually it’s in the spring and every boat for sale along the highway, I stop and look at it or wish I could (when others are in the car, there is a price to pay). I have often wondered if this is a […]
This week I am putting together a program titled “You Are a Song”. This is for a community building program I produce once a month entitled “Songs of My Life”. My friend and I developed this project 5 years ago. Usually the topics are like “community” or “grief” or “celebration”. This month I decided to […]
Yesterday, Monday, friends and I went on, “The most exciting kayak ride ever!” My son Bryce is visiting for my other son, Gabe’s graduation. Okay, we were sitting around on my driveway eating some hot dogs and about 4pm someone says, “Are we going kayaking today?” I’m thinking, “ummmmm”. Bryce and his buddy, Ryan say […]